New Year’s resolutions are a total waste of time (for most people)

Why are New Year’s Resolutions a waste of time? Because they are not backed by the right mental preparation and conditioning.

I know that’s a bold statement, but let me ask you, how many years have you been making resolutions, only to find that within two or three weeks (any day now) you’ve given up?

The fact is, relying upon will power, resolve and persistence is absolutely the worst way to achieve your new goals. These things are controlled by your conscious mind, which is responsible for only about 2-4 percent of your day-to-day actions and perceptions.

It’s not your fault!

When I say that it’s not your fault, here’s what I mean: Due to your habits, you’ve become conditioned to stay in the same physical condition, salary or in the same mediocre relationship. An internal financial or physical “set point” is conditioned deep in your subconscious brain so that you don’t have to think about the day-to-day activities you need to do to maintain it.

Does this make sense to you?

Think about lottery winners: Why is it that within two or three years, almost all of them lose all their money? It’s because they are conditioned to be without money. Their do not change their subconscious set point of how much money they should have, therefore they revert to that point – it’s like an anchor on a boat!

Believe it or not, once any image, habit or belief is ingrained in your subconscious brain, you automatically seek out situations and behave in ways that resonate with that “internal image.” Now, if you currently don’t like the results you are witnessing with your physique, job, income or relationships, then guess what … you must break the old patterns and old conditioning that’s causing them!

How is this possible? Well, NASA has proven that breaking subconscious patterns takes 30-60 days of brain retraining.

You see, if you do not “re-train” your subconscious brain at the same time you make the decision to improve your health or financial situation, for example, you will within very short order return to your old weight and wealth patterns – and that’s why, despite the best intentions, the vast majority of New Year’s resolutions are not kept.

Simply put, there is a “cybernetic trigger” in your brain. It detects any change from your current situation, no matter what is, and it overrides your will power and forces you to behave in accordance with your old habits. Hence, the same results repeat themselves, because of the same thought patterns and behavioral patterns. It works exactly like the thermostat in your home that automatically picks up any change in room temperature and then makes corrections to return things to “normal.”

In essence, this automatic “trigger” causes you to rationalize why you’re not sticking with your diet or new financial plan, and basically forces you to revert to your old habits and patterns.

Think about this: When you break the word “rationalize” in two, you get “rational-lies.” The internal self-talk you catch yourself doing is automatic, and a result of the system doing its job to keep you at your “comfort zone,” even though it’s not what you want!

What does all this mean to you? Your income, your body and your relationships are only expressions of the internal self-image you have at a deep-rooted level… If you want to see permanent changes on the outside, you must retrain the mental image on the inside first.

So it adds up to this: If you truly want to make permanent changes in your life, it takes about 15 minutes a day of mental retraining for 30-60 days. The more you do this, the faster you’ll see results. The good news is that you can’t get a brain hernia if you overdo it.

The bottom line is this: When you are interested in your success, you’ll do what’s convenient. On the other hand, when you are committed to your success, you’ll do whatever it takes.

If you are serious about living the life you want and deserve, check out my FREE guide below and I’ll show you the most advanced system for permanent financial and life success.

 

John

 

Comments

  1. Hi John,

    Great Article. I’ve been applying the techniques used in the “Having it All” program for over a year now. I can tell everyone this stuff works. Its one of the best investments I’ve ever made.

    Thanks John!

    –Ryan
    http://www.acorn-seeds.com

  2. Hi John,

    Great Article. I’ve been applying the techniques used in the “Having it All” program for over a year now. I can tell everyone this stuff works. Its one of the best investments I’ve ever made.

    Thanks John!

    –Ryan
    http://www.acorn-seeds.com

  3. John Lowery says:

    Hi John,

    You Rock! I’ve read your book the answer and hardly ever disagree with anything you say. Keep it up.

  4. John Lowery says:

    Hi John,

    You Rock! I’ve read your book the answer and hardly ever disagree with anything you say. Keep it up.

  5. g,day JOHN i would like to say A HUGE THANKS, I DID IT I CAN SEE THE ARROW IN THE FEDEX LOGO WOOHOO! i dont know what that means but it,s there and i CANsee it now what else can i see?? free n clear un limited possibitys LOVE your stuff mate GARRY inozz

  6. g,day JOHN i would like to say A HUGE THANKS, I DID IT I CAN SEE THE ARROW IN THE FEDEX LOGO WOOHOO! i dont know what that means but it,s there and i CANsee it now what else can i see?? free n clear un limited possibitys LOVE your stuff mate GARRY inozz

  7. hi John & Murray
    I have just bought “The Answer”, and as an aspiring fiction writer, I am finding the information so far a real eye-opener. I can see how so much of what I have been doing has been keeping me stuck in a loop… and so much of it has been internal – me feeding me with the same stuff over and over. It’s been years that I have had this battle and now after starting to read “The Answer” I can see exactly why, how, when, and what the causes are! It’s as if a veil is lifting with each chapter. I had to tell you this because I feel that finally I’m reading a REAL self-help book that clearly and logically explains ‘the answer’ to my writing struggles.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you πŸ™‚
    Roxie

  8. hi John & Murray
    I have just bought “The Answer”, and as an aspiring fiction writer, I am finding the information so far a real eye-opener. I can see how so much of what I have been doing has been keeping me stuck in a loop… and so much of it has been internal – me feeding me with the same stuff over and over. It’s been years that I have had this battle and now after starting to read “The Answer” I can see exactly why, how, when, and what the causes are! It’s as if a veil is lifting with each chapter. I had to tell you this because I feel that finally I’m reading a REAL self-help book that clearly and logically explains ‘the answer’ to my writing struggles.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you πŸ™‚
    Roxie

  9. These are a great series of steps to accomplish anything in life. It is great the way they are so simply and masterfully presented.

  10. These are a great series of steps to accomplish anything in life. It is great the way they are so simply and masterfully presented.

  11. Love that article!

    Ps change the year at the bottom πŸ™‚

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